What to do when the people you care about express their care for you by giving you advice that is clearly a projection of their fears and doubts... I don't know if this happens to you at all or if I'm the only one. I take risks. I believe … [Read more...] about Dealing With Dream Thieves
One of the major techniques of NLP is something called reframing. Essentially it is a way to take any limiting belief or behavioral pattern and turn it around in such a way that the persone either has an "aha" moment or it causes the … [Read more...] about Hideous Favoritism Disease – NLP Reframing
Just have a moment to share one key thought with you today: What questions do you habitually ask? The reason for asking is this - Your unconscious mind responds to questions more powerfully than any other kind of self talk. So if you want … [Read more...] about Dangerous Questions
Today, I don’t know where to begin. I have a lot to say. So I’ll just jump in and hope you'll join me for a few moments because this is one of the most important announcements I've ever made. By now it’s pretty hard to avoid the panic and … [Read more...] about Christmas 2008: Crisis? Or Opportunity?
An old story: there was a frog that was put in a big cauldron. Because the cauldren was large, the frog felt perfectly comfortable. So even though it could have jumped out at any time, it stayed put. As the pot gradually heated up over the … [Read more...] about NLP Motivation Strategies – Part 2
So what is is for you? The stick? Or the carrot? Or some combination of both? What gets you motivated? Have you ever stopped to think about the process of motivation? How do you know it's time to get motivated to do something? Have you … [Read more...] about NLP Motivation Strategies – Part 1