Archive for April, 2009
NLP Q & A Call Part 1
This is Part 1 of a Question and Answer call about Mark Shepard’s Modern Jedi NLP Online Course (recorded 4/29/2009)
Introduction to the Modern Jedi NLP Online Course
- Convenient
- Affordable
- Multi-media
- NLP Community Master-Mind
- A few examples of Real People Using NLP Michael Guerin and Rob Bronson
- Graduates of this course will be able to be certified NLP Practitioners or they can just use the tools and techniques to improve their lives.
Q: What is NLP?
A: Neuro Linguistic Programming is all about how you run your mind. How you interpret the external world and make sense of it internally. It’s also the study of excellence. It’s also all about how you communicate with other people.
NLP is partly modeled on the work of Dr. Milton Erickson, MD “the father of Modern Hypnosis” as well as some of best Therapists, athletes, business people, etc.
Your behavior, thoughts, reactions, interpretations of the world, etc are under our control…if we knew how to access the “programs”. People can make incredible improvements in their lives, relationships and work rapidly.
Q: Can NLP help with changes where a person knows they should eat more vegetables but just never does?
A: Yes. I give a short introduction to NLP submodalities on the recording.
Q: A question about Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic channels of communication.
A: I give an example of making a quick change with a client using kinesthetic submodalities (over the phone while in the grocery store)
Q: How young can a client be and what intelligence level is needed for success with NLP?
A: Works great with kids. Works with all intelligence levels as long as a client can access their imagination.
Q: Can you explain about how your unconscious mind doesn’t recognize the difference between what is real and what is a memory or an imagined event?
A: Explained with example
NLP Q & A Call Part 2
Q: Does NLP help with physical illness?
- The Mind/Body Connection
- The link between language and physical manifestations of Dis-Ease and Healing
- Applications to business, healing, education, sports, peak performance
Q: How will the class process work?
Course material will be delivered on Fridays through a web-based program called Basecamp in the following multi-media formats:
- PDF's
- Audio mp3 files
- Videos
Every Monday we will meet via tele-conference to cover that week's lesson and answer any questions as well as to share stories and experiences of using the techniques
At the end of the course we will have a "boot-camp"
Q: What does the course Cover?
Q: What are the payment details?
Q: Does the course include Ericksonian Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy™ Techniques?
A: Yes. They may be separate trainings in the future. But for this release they are included at no extra charge.
Q: When does the course begin?
Updated answer posted 09/22/09
A: The first version of the new On-Line/Hands-On format began May 8th, 2009. You can now begin the course at anytime and have 2 years to complete it. I'm continually adding videos and other materials to the course as well as improving the format and deliverability of the info.
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: A Case Study Part 2
This is Emily Bernard's second post about the NLP personal breakthrough session we did to address the PTSD she was experiencing after having been stabbed 14 years ago. If you're just joining the story you can get the Introduction and Part 1 here:
Emily Bernard writes:
"Mark and I began our first session with an interview. He asked me a series of questions about the problems—anxiety, fear, dread—I have experienced since I was stabbed in 1994.
His questions made me think.
They weren’t the usual “What happened? And then what happened?” kinds of queries. Mark’s questions put me in the center, if that makes sense.
Immediately, he was guiding me to reframe the event—and the enduring negative feelings created by my memory—so that I could see myself as having a role—not in what happened (the past is the past, of course), but in my subsequent reactions to it.
I once read somewhere that humans use only a small fraction of their enormous brain power throughout their lifetimes. It wasn’t that I felt my brain expanding as Mark and I talked, but his questions led me to a new doorway in my mind. Suddenly, the literature he sent me about the powers of the unconscious mind began to make sense. We have more control over what goes on inside of our heads than we often believe we do.
After more than an hour of this intensive interview, Mark and I broke for lunch. Again, I was impressed by his gentle spirit, his warmth and sparkle. He was as eager to get back to work as I was. So, after this short break, we began again.
The second part of our session involved reconstructing a timeline. Mark guided me back in time as I explored the roots of negative emotions and limiting decisions. We went further back than I was honestly comfortable with—at first. For me, I think the strength of this work is how much it pushed me to do and think things that I wasn’t comfortable with. It pushed me out of my comfort zone, and all those habitual ways of understanding and narrating myself and my relationship to the world.
Mark and I went into the recesses of my memory, and I found myself able to recount experiences that I had thought I had buried. I was able to speak about things that I had talked only to a few other people about.
Mark was not judgmental; his demeanor was calm and relaxed the entire time. Because I felt safe, I went further and further back. And before I knew it, I was ready to be hypnotized."
- Emily Bernard
In part 3 I'll share what those questions were that I asked Emily as well as key ways what I do is different from traditional therapy.
In part 4 Emily will share her experience of being hypnotized...
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- Mark Shepard, NLPT, - Modern Jedi NLP Trainer.
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Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: NLP Case Study Part 1
The Following Post is written by Emily Bernard describing her experience working with me in a Personal Breakthrough Session with the intention of clearing her PTSD and anxiety about public places.
Mark Shepard is very tall. His height is the first thing I notice about him when I open the door to let him in. The second thing is his demeanor, which is kind, gentle, and warm. He has a youthful, eager way about him. His smile says, "This is as much of an adventure for me as it is for you."
When I called Mark, I was ready. I had arrived in New Haven in July 2008 in order to begin a fellowship at Yale. Within four weeks, I was in Yale-New Haven hospital. The doctors determined I had a bowel obstruction--my second in seven years--and scheduled me for surgery. I was lucky--my intestines somehow untangled themselves from the mass of scar tissue inside my abdomen. After a week's stay, I was allowed to leave.
This was my second visit to Yale-New Haven. Fifteen years ago, I was stabbed in the gut by a stranger in a coffee shop. The perpetrator was sick with mental illness. He was hospitalized; everyone involved survived.
For fifteen years, I have been unable to get past certain fears associated with being in public and interacting with strangers. After one of my doctors informed me that I was just "one of those unfortunates," people who "over heal," or make too much scar tissue, I decided to do whatever I could to turn my fears and luck around.
Medical doctors told me there was nothing to be done; psychotherapy didn't seem to be helping. I decided to look beyond traditional doctor's offices for solutions.
Enter Mark Shepard.
For our first session, Mark agreed to come to my house. His generosity put me at ease, and made it that much more possible for me to take the leap into the unknown world of hypnosis. At that point, all I knew about hypnosis I had read about in books. Mark was recommended to me by a massage therapist who herself had yet to try hypnosis. "When I'm ready, Mark Shepard is the one I will go to." That was enough for me.
Mark and I first spoke on the phone. He was friendly, prompt, and direct. I liked him immediately. He sent me some literature to help me get acquainted with hypnosis, the unconscious mind, and his methods. There were questionnaires to fill out, and homework to prepare so that Mark could come to know more intimately the kinds of struggles that had led me to hypnosis in the first place.
I liked the questionnaires and the homework. I see them as the first stage in the process of the work I am doing with Mark. They force you to articulate your problems, fears, and goals. They help you focus, and they all center around the issue of "change." What Mark does has psychological components, but it is not psychotherapy. He gets you to identify the root of a problem, but also the role you have played in either creating the problem or contributing to its survival. The work is goal-oriented. It takes faith, work, and openness. I believe it is a process--one, for me, that has only begun.
Thanks to Emily's willingness to share her process, you will be able to get a sense of how I do what I do to help people clear fears, phobias, anxiety, PTSD and other Mind/Body challenges. Look for Part 2 next...
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: NLP Case Study (Introduction)
I recently was contacted by Emily Bernard who was seeking help in healing the trauma and anxiety left over from an old wound. She was seriously injured along with 7 other people in a stabbing at a coffee shop 14 years ago.
She was in critical condition and truthfully could have died but she survived. However from that experience she was understandably haunted by the possibility of at any moment being attacked again. So she experienced a hypervigilence and unease every time she went out in public.
She also experienced a physical problem at the site of the stabbing in her body at 7 year intervals. There was no logical medical explanation for the physical problems occurring at 7 year intervals and at the same time of year. (note from Emily: "The problem was adhesions, my intestines getting tangled up in my scar tissue. There is no procedure to solve the problem of adhesions (which are very common), no cure.")
I appreciated that Emily was open to the possibility that the physical recurrence of the adhesions was linked to unresolved emotional material.
Another challenge was that as an exquisitely talented writer Emily was experiencing some challenges with writer's block.
One of the greatest challenges I have as a practitioner is determining who I will work with. Every one expresses the desire to change but not everyone is willing to "get to cause" and accept "response-ability" for their change. I don't "cure" people. I teach them how to "master their own minds for a change". I help them to clear blocks and release old beliefs and patterns. Some people want me to just wave a magic wand and make them all better. Sometimes it seems like that's what I do. Change can be rapid. But ultimately it's the client making the change not me.
Emily seemed like she understood that and was willing to roll up her sleeves and do what Byron Katie calls "The Work".
Another aspect of how I practice NLP and Hypnotherapy is to assign a task that contains in it elements of the transformation the client is seeking.
We agreed to work together and use the blog as an extension of our work. Since Emily is a writer I asked her if she would be willing to share her story through this blog. I felt it would serve her greater purpose of writing about her experiences in such a way as to facilitate her own healing as well as to serve as a kind of beacon or resource for other people dealing with traumatic events or challenges in their lives.
Ultimately my intention is to support Emily's healing, and transformation as well as to make the work I do more accessible and understandable so that I can help more people who like myself and Emily struggle, or have struggled, with blocks that keep them from allowing their talents and abilities to shine out.
I know that my clients and the readers who find this site are incredible people who have much to share with the world. I also know that the talented, sensitive, imaginative, creative types who have so much to give to the world often find themselves blocked. It is my belief that this blocking and subsequent healing journey is not unlike the classic "hero's journey" that fills ancient and contemporary literature.
Stay tuned to the next several posts as Emily and I share the story of working together and clearing old patterns of thought and behavior as well as reinforcing and repatterning the new ways of thinking and being. Be a part of the process as we dig in and check our progress along the way.
In the next post Emily will introduce herself and give her account of her personal breakthrough sessions with me.
Bernie Seigelisms
Some more notes from my class last Monday with Dr. Bernie Siegel.
- Water is an incredible role model.The ocean waves never complain about smashing up against the shore. A river never whines about having to flow over rocks. A pond never gets annoyed because it is so small and still.
- Actors immune systems respond to the role they are playing. Comedy increases healthy immune response measurements. Tragedy lowers immune system health. Be careful what roles you choose to play.
- Act and behave as the person you want to be.
- Decide who you want to be. Wake up tomorrow morning and be that person.
- Do what makes you happy.Bernie Siegel's mom said that all the time. He "got" it.
- He had a cancer patient who said, "My mother's words have been eating away at me for 30 years..." Eventually he manifested what was festering inside.
- Bring forth what is within. Stop holding back emotions. Stop stopping yourself. Express. Flow.
- Losing track of time is the healthiest state you can be in.
- If you lose your health, go look for it.
- When asking or even confronting a patient about the true cause of their dis-ease, asking them "what does this illness do for you?" What does this illness mean to you? What are the benefits you drive from your illness? What is the blessing in the curse? This is ASKING the patient it is not blaming them. Asking a person to acknowledge that their illness has meaning for them is not blaming them for having the illness. It does give them the power to change and may even save their life.
- Death is not the horrible thing to be afraid of. Bernie choked to death as a young child. He saw himself lying on the bed. When his windpipe cleared and he was sucked back into his body he was "Mad as hell!" Most people who have experienced being clinically dead and then brought back express deep annoyance. What a drag! Life is hard.
- Someone called Bernie to tell him he was going to kill himself. Bernie said "If you kill yourself I'll never speak to you again!" and hung up the phone. His friend was really ticked off and showed up the next day furious. Bernie pointed out, "We'll since you're here yelling at me I guess you didn't kill yourself afterall!"
Any thoughts? Leave a comment below! More next week.